Stop listening to motivational speakers who profit from your patronage.
Robert Kiyosaki of the rich dad poor dad fame made more money from writing about business than actually doing business.🙄
The goal is to be happy. If buying rings and necklaces and clothes make you happy then do it.
Just be sure to save for the rainy day and invest for the future.
You don’t need to be the richest man on earth to be happy. Savor every moment of your life, it’s an amazing gift from God.